Sunday, November 23, 2014

Top 10 reasons why Pinoys are unhappy and not successful

Top 10 reasons why Pinoys are unhappy and not successful:

1) Thinking of what others think 

 The kapitbahay, the epal friends, the kupal boss etc. They got everything bad to say about you. Well in extreme cases where you front an image to fit into society instead of doing what you want. In the end, these people will do anything to please others in terms of taking the acceptable job (that is of being a lawyer, doctor or engineer dahil pag empleyado ka puro panlalait aabutin mo). Madalas sila yung nag-sisimba para pag-usapan ang buhay ng iba.

2) Worrying 

 The word itself suggests a negative attribute to which you think about something bad is to happen. We all heard it before and it's quite restricting. There's a borderline on safekeeping a person and doing things out of selfishness. Ayaw mo ng trabaho ng tao kase gabi pasok? Puro ka worry about the future, kinalimutan mo na ang ngayon.

3) Blaming others for your misery 

 If you're old and got an unhappy childhood then red flag on you! Move on and get on with life. Those people anyway don't deserve to be in your life. Kung pinahirapan ka nila dati, why would you welcome them in your life when you've become successful? You don't owe them anything.

4) Not accepting change

Tama na ang kaka-reminisce mo nung panahon mo na trabaho ang lumalapit sa tao at kung san ka pumapasok ay dun ka na mag-reretire. We live in different timelines but we still need to keep on moving up. Change is good whether you like it or not. Kahit anong inis mo sa mga jejemon tuwing simbang gabi ay walang ka magagawa kungdi pabayaan sila. 

5) Not having a hobby

Lahat tayo may kanya-kanyang trip sa buhay. Sabi nga di ba having an idle mind is the devil's playground. So get busy with life. It's never too late to learn something. 

6) Not having enough sleep

Matulog ka! yun lang yun. Hindi yung isip ka ng isip ng masasamang bagay sa mundo tapos sa sobrang inis mo ay magwawalis ka na lang sa gabi. Sino ngayon ang muntanga? 

7) Overthinking and overanalyzing 

Life is simple so don't make it complicated. Gutom ka, kumain ka. Antok ka, matulog ka. Pero kung iisipin mo pa ibang tao kesa sa sarili ay talagang di ka makakatulog. 

8) Not listening to music

Science already proves it that listening to music triggers your memories especially the good ones. Kaya wag mong basagin ang trip ng mga rakista. Hindi sila drug addict okay ? Hindi porke't baggy jeans ko ay di na ko naliligo. So don't hate people going to the clubs simply because you've never been into one. 

9) Not moving on and living in the past

If a person did you wrong years ago, either you remove em in your life or accept the "now" na okay kayo. So pabayaan mo na yung utang nya na 175 na pinang-taxi room nya. 

10) Working hard instead of working smart

These are difficult times pero sino ka ba para pigilan ang mga online sellers, freelancers at business men? Eh sa ayaw nga nila mag-trabaho sa opisina. Choice nila yun. Kung umasenso or maghirap sila, decision nila yun. These people want to control their own lives. Their time. Their income. They all have their reasons and again if you never tried it before or if failed, tigilan ang talangka mentality. Life is too short not to do what you want in life. Sa kakaisip mo ng SSS mo ay baka di ka umabot pagtanda.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Dog Myths vs. Facts

We love our dogs. They are more than just pets, they are our companions. Our stress relievers and bundle of joy. Enough of the poetic side but yeah whenever I am with my dog, I am free from all stress and worries. Dog walking makes me calm and think of solutions instead of problems. I go out for 5 km walks everyday and lost 25 lbs. Now here comes the hard part, what do other people think of your dog. For starters, non-dog lovers will complain of the slightest stench even if it ain't related to the dog. Dogs smell but they're not supposed to stink. Scientifically, households who got no dogs have children who are more susceptible to disease than households that has a dog. In lay man's terms, instant boost of immune system. The hardest issue that I hafta deal with it on a day to day basis is educating people on dog myths. I'm not an expert but I complied a few based mostly on experience.

1) BARKING DOGS - Have you ever wondered why your dog knows when you're arriving even if you're still far? Not because he saw you at the gate but rather it smelled you even if you were still a block away. Again scientifically, there was a study done wherein the moment you think that you are about to go home whether you're at work, at the grocery or mall, your dog anticipates you coming home as both of you are psychologically linked.

Now if you talk about other people, I'm sure this happened to you. The owner of the house you just passed by, gets mad at you coz of the noise his barking dogs did so now he tells you not to pass by his house anymore. Doesn't take rocket science on this scenario, dogs should be socialized and be trained properly if it were to be guard dogs. You gotta take em out for daily walks to release the pent up energy or else it becomes destructivc. Lawfully, your private property ends when it meets a public road and yes the spot where you park your car is technically public property. The said dogs are stimulated not by sight but smell. Even if you're inside the house, the neighbor's dog will bark once it smells your dog. There are also dogs who are visually stimulated that's why you gotta train em with lotsa distractions. A car or person passing by, cats or birds in the area and even food. Those are controllable things so it would be epic lame to just block their view by bombarding their cage coz even if they don't see it, they still smell it. Get the drift?

2) THE HOWL -  This is a common myth especially with Pinoys when supernatural meets science. When a dog howls, it is said that it sees a ghost or spirit and someone from where that dog is located will surely die. If there were reports of this then it's purely coincidental. If you talk supernatural, can you actually predict and a prevent a dog from howling? Common sense naman parekoy. Now let's go to the science part, dogs howl because they could be bored, communicating with other dogs or in pain. So far that's what I know, Google the rest if you wanna. All dogs came are wolf descendants, pack animals who really howl therefore all dogs naturally howl. The control part is you provide em adequate exercise. For those who got Alaskan Malamutes and Siberian Huskies like me, it's challenge coz admit it or not when our dogs howl it's like they're actually singing as their vocal patterns are way different from the local howler.

The hardest part with educating these people is they still and will always rely on kasabihan. Sadly there are people with escalated cases reaching the baranggay just to deal with an issue that can be addressed with when informed properly to begin with. Syetness wala ba kayong cable TV to watch Animal Planet and Cesar Milan on Nat Geo?  Well of course to be fair it's a different ballgame when there's excessive howling. Dogs howl. Get over it. Nobody dies.

3) DOCTOR, DOCTOR I AM SICK - Dogs just like humans can get sick in any point of their lives. No matter how much care you give with vitamins and vet check up, they will still get sick. There are hereditary illneses that are not transferrable to humans. Hip displacement and mange are among the few. My furkid has demodectic mange that according to 4 vets is hereditary due to a weak immune system that was passed by from mother to litter. As with all sicknesses, there are times when one treatment alone can cure it. Sometimes it takes months to cure it and lifetime maintenance. Stop the blame game and being the responsible is the key. Most of all, don't feel guilty when your dog gets sick coz there's a thin line being negligence and doing what's best but still your dog gets sick. Don't be quick to judge also an owner who has a sickly dog. My battle with mange til this day is not with the illness itself but rather the people around me. In a nutshell they want me to bring my dog to the vet now then come back later and expect my dog to be perfectly okay. Dealing with a sickly dog makes you patient and understanding not just your pet itself but the people around you especially those who are not dog lovers who easily say that having a sick dog is a form of animal cruelty. You don't give up on your pet, same with humans, you don't just throw em away or have them killed when they get sick. This is yet to be proven but is said that when your dog gets sicks, it absorbs the pain and suffering that you should have gotten. The only proof to this is mange which is stress induced. And yes whenever I get stressed, my dog gets sick. There ya go. Extreme as it can be, I guess the only way for non-dog lovers to understand is to bring them to the vet to have all the answers with the accompanying explanations.

4) PUNTA KA SA CONDO, DALA KA DOGFOOD -  In our modern times, one of the biggest misconceptions has been having a condominium units that doesn't allow dogs. Yes if it is high rise building with lotsa tenants per floor as walls are not thick enough or simply a marketing strategy that theirs has a peaceful, noise and stress free environment. Megaworld is one of the developers that actually encourages dog owners. Take a look at their projects Eastwood, Forbestown BGC and Lucky China Town mall as being pet friendly with being able to bring your dogs inside airconditioned premises. With a growing number of pet people, it's a good way to somewhat target em as most developers usually don't allow dogs. My condo unit is mid rise and it's Cambridge Central Park Pasig that allows dogs. Low and mid rise units allows dogs. Nuff said.

Dog myths vs. facts is actually dog lovers vs. non-dog lovers. Those who refuse to learn and most of the time unreasonable. Most of the time these people are the ones doing the complaining for you on how expensive dogfood is and how you could have saved or used that amount on something else. Only a dog lover can understand a fellow dog lover. The birds and the bees  is easier to explain toan 8 year old kid than dogs being dogs to a 50 plus adult.